COUPLES COACHING
AFTER SEXUAL BETRAYAL
Couples coaching offers a place for each person to speak from their own experience.
The partner’s experience is heard without minimizing. The betrayer remains responsible for the choices and actions that caused the betrayal.
The future of the relationship is not prescribed.
HONESTY AND ACCOUNTABILITY
Honesty and accountability are expressed through consistent, congruent action.
For the betrayer, this includes:
• Speaking honestly
• Listening without defending or shifting responsibility
• Taking responsibility for his choices and actions
• Respecting the partner’s boundaries
• Following through on what he says
FULL DISCLOSURE
Repeated discoveries can create repeated trauma.
Full Disclosure offers a structured process for bringing the truth about sexual behaviour into the relationship. A full therapeutic disclosure is prepared and facilitated by appropriately trained professionals.
The partner has choices about what she wants to know.
I come alongside her before, during, and after the process. The betrayer’s accountability does not depend on her response.
COMMUNICATION AND RELATIONSHIP CHOICES
Communication after betrayal requires more than talking.
Couples coaching can support:
• Speaking from one’s own experience
• Listening without minimizing
• Responding honestly
• Communicating boundaries clearly
Each person remains responsible for their own choices and actions.